Resolutions:Countdown to 2009... Number 1.

Ok... here I go. This year I want to include behavioral adjustment resolutions. I want to improve my well beign by taking care of the things I neglect or take for granted the most.

So, my first goal this years is... to have more intimacy in my relationship.

For a long time now I've thought that our sexual pace was good.  You know what they say, at least three times a week right? Well, not really.  Nobody's keeping score.  I mean, we're not in a competition to win the "Most sexually active couple" award, I know that.  But I also know that couples really need this time for themselves.  The exploration of the bodies is a very basic necessity that synchs the minds of two different worlds.  The act itself is the essence, the basic instinct the drew us together in the first place and it is our responsibility to keep up with it.  Besides, sex is good, really good, so this resolution is not that bad after all ;-) 

This year will be our ten year anniversary.  We've done pretty well so far and it takes a lot of tweaking here and there from both of us to keep up with each other.  So this is my contribution to the relationship:  I choose to seduce my husband more often.  I want more sex and orgasms, and I want to have them with the man I love.

Sexy, sexy.

I had sex with my husband last night.  The kind that leaves you soar and wonderfully tired afterwards. It was unpredictable, sexy, sweaty and oh so good.  The orgasm was long, powerful and explosive. I can still smell the sex emanating from within.  Is a musky and humid smell that lingers and only I can perceive.  I just love it.

I thought about our sexual encounter during the day.  Nobody at work knew the things I did the night before, and I bet none of them could even imagine how good I was at it.  I'm an average kind of girl, unpretentious, who minds her own business.  But I like sex.... and I don't apologize about that. 

I only wish we had more of it.  The daily routines of marriage life are often tedious and tiresome.  We don't have kids, but still we have long hours of work and chores to take care of.  And now with my brother (and his wife and kids) staying at our house, well, adds to it.

But I am already setting my priorities for next year and I on top of the list stands that I want lots of more sex in 2009.